depends sometimes i hear it from people i know. and if i like it i'll look into it. or maybe when im watching tv usually music videos(my life revolves around music even when i watch tv.) if i hear a band i like i'll go to youtube and look if i like that song or more of their songs.
when a band does catch my ear. i'll look up the lyrics, umm im kinda weird i have really good listening skills and i could select the things i want to hear. so first i'll hear the song completely not paying attention to any particular thing just as a whole song. so when i want to hear the guitars i just tune out the rest of the song and just listen to the guitars, then i listen to just the vocals and tune the rest out, then i'll listen to just the drums,and the bass. and then listen to it as a whole song again.(meaning by the time i decide wether i like the song or not it won't be mad until ive listened to it about 5 times.) then i'll check out more of their songs. then the live version, then i'll look up the band info. if i like what i see and hear then i like the band. idk they sort of have to be the complete package for me to like them. lol. they have to have good lyrics, good vocals, good beats, good people.
new music? ehh its okay some things just sound the same as the other bands.
my opinion:
from your list to listen to i like: disturbed, breaking benjamin and thursday is okay not to bad but nothing special
-Escape the Fate- eh sounds like every other band out there today. not creative at ALL!! if you look at their video situations it similar to the video of van halen hot for teacher.
-Lostprophets- not much my style but i can see why people like them. but i don't think you will.
-Story of the Year- never liked them
-Jack's Mannequin- well if you like james blunt or coldplay you'll like jack's mannequin.
-Bad Religion- they're pretty good
-Aiden- awful and they look awful too.
-From First To Last: this band: well i have no idea y so many people like them. i heard them and my ears started to bleed. the guy has bad vocals and it just doesn't sound good. but thats my opinion we all have different taste in music.
-Sugarcult- i remember this band when i was in middle school.(6 years ago) i use to like them. very pop rock. sort of before fall out boy. but my music taste has changed a bit. they are okay but again nothing special.
and the other bands i haven't heard. some ive heard the name but never really looked into them and listened to their songs.