It was probably 5 yrs ago-ish by an alternative/pop/punk rock band. I just remember that there was a car wreck (drunk driver?), but the victims family was shown at home during the car wreck and as the cars hit each other...the victims family members were being thrown across the rooms they were in as if THEY were the ones in the wreck. Like it was wrecking their lives too. Anyone remember the band/name of the song?